On my birthday, I reflect on how some people don’t see beyond my physical appearance, ignoring my true value, which leaves me with a feeling of disappointment. On a day that should be one of joy and celebration, I often find myself lost in thoughts about the superficiality with which we are often judged.
We live in a society where physical appearance is often overrated. First impressions are based on the external, and many people don’t take the time to discover what’s really on the inside. It is painful to realize that, for some, a person’s worth is measured by how they look and not by their character, abilities, or goodness. On my birthday, this thought becomes even more acute, as it is a day when I expect to receive genuine affection and recognition, but sometimes I only encounter superficial appreciation.
This disappointment leads me to question the relationships I have. I wonder how many people really know me, how many have taken the time to understand my dreams, fears and aspirations. I reflect on how I can be seen as a set of external characteristics and not for the whole person that I am. This reflection not only saddens me, but also motivates me to seek deeper and more meaningful connections.
In these moments, I also try to remind myself that not all people are like that. There are those who value the essence of a person, who look beyond the superficial and appreciate the true inner beauty. These people are the ones who enrich our lives and make us feel valued for who we really are.
In conclusion, my birthday becomes a time of introspection. I reflect on the importance of being valued for our true essence and not our appearance. Although disappointment can be an overwhelming feeling, it also drives me to seek and cultivate genuine and meaningful relationships, where a person’s true value is recognized and appreciated.
